Girl problem

What I learned early in life is to love myself. I love my husband, but I will not give everything to him and he knows that. I value myself so much kaya yung utak ko palagi automatic yan na nagreremind sa self ko na you'll get through whatever you experience. You don't have to pretend that you are okay, but I think it helps a lot kung meron kang pamilya o kaibigan na pwede mong makausap at mapagkakatiwalaan at hindi ka ichichismis sa iba. Just one person is okay to have that emotional support. If hindi ka okay, then hindi ka okay. Spend time crying, talking with someone, and please heal completely. Huwag mo madaliin ang sarili mo, pero make sure that when you are with your kid, you are calm and hindi ka tuliro. Always remember that this time hindi na ikaw lang, but you are taking care of someone who depends on you, kaya you need to pick yourself up and do whatever it takes to be the best for that kid and for yourself. Gawin mong motivation ang mga anak mo, but remember that you cannot pour from an empty cup. Kaya kailangan mo muna punuin ng kung ano ang kailangan bago mo ito maibigay ng buo sa anak mo.