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"How to know if he’s the one God has for you" With so many different words used to describe your relationship status. Dating? Courting? Talking to each other? You oftentimes forget that the primary purpose of that season is to evaluate whether or not he is the one whom God has for you. Even though you might have an idea of what you consider ‘husband material’, you might not know what signs to look for. And the last thing you want is to let your feelings get in the way of your true happiness. While it easy to define that he’s not the one based on his actions, there are also signs that will show you that he is husband material. 10 signs He is the one God has for you : 1.His action speaks louder than words 📌 Many men will speak about all the things they want to do, but only a few will actually follow up and put in the work. And they will only do so for the woman they value. When God sends you a man, that man will have integrity and stand by his word. 2. He knows what he wants 📌 A man who knows what he wants will show you by stating his #relationshipgoals early on without being afraid that you might get too hopeful. He will have a vision for the relationship he is looking for and who he wants in it. 3. He pursues you 📌 One of the many signs that you are dating someone that just isn’t that into you is that he will not put in an effort to be with you. Every interaction is initiated by you and oftentimes every date is planned by you too. However, when God has sent you the right man, then he will actively pursue you. He will call, he will text and he will enjoy planning a date or two to make you happy. Because one of the most obvious signs from God about relationships is that God will end the relationship if the guy is not the one and keep it flourishing if he is the one. 4. He’s your answered prayer 📌 While I really don’t want to encourage any of you to treat God like a genie who will answer unrealistic expectations of a man. I want to encourage you that God knows you and knows the man he has for you. If your sincere prayer for a godly man includes godly characteristics, then you will know God sent your mate because he possesses them. 5. The relationship glorifies God 📌 How to know if God wants you to be with someone? Easy. If being with him doesn’t compromise your relationship with God, but rather strengthens it. 6. He makes you love yourself 📌There is a very real assumption that if you feel comfortable around your partner without make-up than he’s the one. And that’s very true! But I believe you have to drop more than just your make-up. Namely the walls around your heart. Because one way how to know if he’s the one God has for you is when you feel completely comfortable being vulnerable! 7. You become part of each other’s life 📌 While your days don’t revolve around each other, they definitely include each other. Before he makes plans with his friends for the week, he ensures that you get to spend time with each other too. And whenever he has exciting news to share or something to talk about you’re the first person that comes to his mind. I know this might sound cheesy, but the best relationships are the ones where the couple considers each other as best friends. You enjoy spending time together, you enjoy talking for hours and you can laugh about the same things. You don’t just like each other romantically, but also as a person. 8. You make each other better 📌 Fact is every relationship, no matter if romantic or not, should add to your life and not subtract from it. And the man you want to spend the rest of your life with should be a safe haven for your thoughts, your dreams, and your journey. The last thing you want is to be with someone that doesn’t support or believes in you. Does he have your back when life is hard? Does He boost your confidence when you feel like giving up? If he’s the one for you, he will support you face challenges and feel like giving up. 9. You trust him 📌 In a thriving relationship, your fears and doubts will vanish the more time you spend together. You will start to trust him, not just in the relationship but with your life, goals, and future. The man you commit to should be a good leader that you enjoy following. 10. He respects you 📌Too often we think respecting someone only refers to the way we speak to them. However, in relationships respect is part of the foundation you build on and can make or break it. It can be hard to determine if he is the one God has for you, but this list should help you. Shalom! Lyn Speaks Don't settle for less mommy... Lalo na if sinasaktan ka na ☹️ Just keep on praying and focus nalang kay baby. Don't be afraid to start anew. God will heal you. God will always guide you. 💕 Eventually, the man that God has meant for you will find his way to you. 🙏

Nagtataka po ako..bakit laging ang reason ng mga babaeng sinasaktan/physical o verbal abuse ng partner nila ay "natatakot na mawalan ng tatay ang anak"?kung toxic relationship yan the best cure is to walk away..may tatay nga anak mo abusive naman at inilalagay pa kayo sa risk? I know it's one thing na mahpakamartir para sa anak mo..but then kung naririsk na kalusugan nyo..mental man o.physical..hiwalayan mo na..lalo at di pa nmn kayo kasal..who knows?? Pag ginawa mo yan marealize nya stupid mistakes nya at magbago? Diba? But for as long as anjan ka at inaallow mo na itreat ka ng ganyan..what guarantee do you have na magbabago sya???teach him a lesson that he will never forget..leave that kind of abusive relationship..show him you have self respect and no.one has the the right to hurt you just like that.. :)

Sis.. wala naman pong kaso kung maging single mom, atlis di ka stress sa ganyan tao higit sa lahat ndi natatapakan pagkatao mom. E magsstay ka sa ganyan tao susme kawawa ka, physical, emotional, mentally.. maawa ka sa sarili mo at sa anak mo.yan asawa mo kung may makuha man virus dahil sa katigasan ng ulo ayaw pinagsasabihan edi hayaan mo po sya magkacovid kesa madamay kayo ng anak mo at sinasaktan kp. Kung ako yan baka pinakulong ko na yan kahit pa lockdown. Mas ok pa maging single mom, kesa magpakamartir para maging punching bag ng ganyan lalaki.. momsh isip isip po wag mo hayaan na ganyan kayo..

Naiintindihan kita mommy. I've been there before, naging Battered Wife din ako. Nagpakamartir ng ilang taon sa babaero kong partner tiniis mga pananakit emotionally at physically. Hanggang natauhan ako mommy lalo na hindi na sya tumutulong financially. Umuwi na lang ako sa mga magulang ko at tumayo sa sarili kong mga paa. tinaguyod ko ang anak ko mag isa. Gumising ka mommy habang maaga pa dahil ang mga mapang abusong lalaki wala na pagmamahal yan sa partner. Tumayo ka mommy at tatagan ang iyong sarili alang alang sa iyong anak. Dahil sa huli magsisisi man yan tatawanin mo na lang sya.

Sa totoo lang po di mo na kailangan ng advice, sa sarili mo palang at mga nararanasan mo dapat po alam mo na ang kasagutan. Mamili ka nalang kung ano gusto mo. Lumaki ang anak mo na may ama pero posible na mawalan ng ina everytime na sinasaktan ka at nakikita ng bata o walang ama pero anjan ka na gagawin lahat para magpaka ama at ina sa kanya at in time maipapaunawa sa kanya bakit wala na kayo ng dad nya. Lumaki akong broken family, nakikita paano mag away parents ko and mas pinili ko nlng na mag hiwalay sila kesa laging ganon nakikita ko mas malaki ang epekto sa tao.

once na sinaktan ka na nya wala na sya respeto sayo,, siguro hindi na worth it ipaglaban pa ang pasasama niyong dalawa, kase sinasaktan ka na nya physically, gusto mo buo kayo, paano nalang sa pag laki ng anak mo nakikita na sinasaktan ka palagi ng ka live in mo? sa tingin mo wala yung psychological trauma sa anak mo? baka maging ganun din sya pag laki nya, kase nakikita sa tatay nya,. hindi ka pinalaki ng magulang mo para saktan lang, saka hindi naman kayo kasal eh, maawa ka sa sarili mo lalo na sa anak mo sis,.

Sis kung saken nangyare yan mas better ng walang tatay ang anak ko kesa mapatay ako ng sarili kinkasama ko. Diba? Isipin mo isang buhay lang binigay ni god saten, pano kung lumala pananakit sayo pano nalang anak mo. Wag kang matakot. Umuwi ka sa inyo, pag sinundan ka Ipablotter mo sa brgy niyo. Once na sinaktan ka ng isang beses hiwalayan mo na. Wala ng chance magbago yan. Hahayaan mo nalang ba na mabuhay ka kasama siya sa takot? Girl power momsh. Marunong na tayo lumaban at maging matatag para sa anak naten.

Di ka naman pala kasal eh.. Eh di makipaghiwalay ka.. Ayaw mong walang tatay anak mo? Mas masama sa bata na mawalan ng nanay.. Ang tatay pwede yan gampanan ng mga lalakeng may bayag.. hindi yung katulad sa partner mo na babae lang kayang saktan.. Sis. Wag kang pakatanga sa ganyang klaseng lalake.. maliit na nga ang utak, tinatalangka pa.. imagine kapakanan ng tao di niya maisip.. my ghad.. Stay strong. Wag paka-martyr momsh. Di ka member ng Gomburza para maging martyr.

Naku momsh once na sinaktan ka ng isang beses uulit at uulit pa yan. Gusto mo ba kalakihan ng baby mo yan yung makita na sinasaktan ka ng tatay niya? Ou andun na tayo mahirap tlga pagwalang tatay ang bata pero mas mahirap kung patuloy pa din yung ganyan mamaya niyan di lang ikaw ang saktan niya pati si baby. Mag-isip ka momshie di bale ng walang tatay si baby kesa nman ganyan kaya mo yan andyan ang family at friends mo . Punta kna ng barangay habang yan plang naggawa niya sayo

Sis mas kawawa ang anak mo kung lalaki siya sa ganyang klaseng tatay. Isipin mo nlng ung nakikita niyang sinasaktan ng tatay niya ung nanay niya. Nakakatrauma un sis at nakakaapekto din sa paglaki niya. It is no longer worth it sis. Isipin mo din sarili mo. Napaka walang kwenta niyang tao. Seek assistance sis kung d mo kaya pa barangay. Kausapin mo family mo about your situation din. Masyadong brutal at makasarili yang ka live in partner mo. Dpat sa mga ganyan iniiwan.