phobia of birth

Hey mamas, How long did u mamas get over the phobia of giving birth? I have a boy and i really want a girl next but the thought of all the pain, just a turn off and turns to a phobia. The contraction pain, the v tear, the stiching, the after pain of swollen private parts.

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Hi, I can understand your pain and worry but think of the positive things like having a complete family. Kids playing together and having a good time :) No better feeling than that