phobia of birth

Hey mamas, How long did u mamas get over the phobia of giving birth? I have a boy and i really want a girl next but the thought of all the pain, just a turn off and turns to a phobia. The contraction pain, the v tear, the stiching, the after pain of swollen private parts.

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I got over it as soon as everthing has healed properly. I share the same sentiments as the other mothers here, the joy of seeing the child bring so much happiness trumps over the temporary pain.