phobia of birth

Hey mamas, How long did u mamas get over the phobia of giving birth? I have a boy and i really want a girl next but the thought of all the pain, just a turn off and turns to a phobia. The contraction pain, the v tear, the stiching, the after pain of swollen private parts.

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Super Mum

There are many pain management options these days. I think I can understand your phobia but the experience is priceless. Giving your 1st born a sibling is one of the greatest gift too. I am sure you have your support from your family. Talk to your husband about it too.