My princess is damn stubborn about anything ...and if I scold her, her grandmom and granddad scold me..what should I do??

i can understand that as a mom, sometimes you do need to scold your kids, especially when they become stubborn and just refuse to listen. however, if the grandparents end up scolding you back for this, that too in front of her, it will only have the opposite effect. your daughter will not learn to listen to you and will not respect for you, and take you for granted. you need to stand up for yourself and tell your in-laws that there are certain things they cannot do, such as speak to you in a certain way, especially when you are disciplining your child. the entire family needs to understand this, so that the child is clear about who the grown up is and who to listen to. spend quality time with your princess and tell her that while you love her a lot, it makes you sad when she behaves like that.