Lately, I am feeling attracted towards an office colleague and I have an inkling he feels the same. We are in the same team. Next week we have a team meet in Goa. I don't know how I will keep a control on my emotions there. I am a married woman with a 7-year-old son. Show me a way out!

Kind of a difficult situation, but I guess, you will have to do a little preparation of sorts. Beforehand only tell yourself what is your limit. For example, you will not get drunk with him, you will maintain a safe distance, and would always be a group when he is around. And even if you are with him, you will have a line drawn in your mind that you are not going to go beyond normal conversation. You have a 7 year old son and a fine married life going on, I am sure, you would know how these infatuations, flings are momentary and when you will move over this, you will feel guilty. Plus, all this is not worth. At the end of everything, you are going to repent being close to the man. So, it is better to have control on yourself at all moments. Sure, have fun and hang around but be stern and adamant on the path you know would lead to problems.