caught my husband watching porn

Last night, I accidentally saw the search history on my husband's phone, and it turns out there are a lot of porn sites. He just came back from a week-long business trip. I'm really sad... I feel betrayed. Does he masturbate and fantasize about other women? It's true that my husband often initiates sexual intimacy. Maybe if we don't have sex for a week, it's quite hard for him... but still, this makes me sad and angry. But I haven't told him yet because I'm afraid I might just be overreacting. Is this normal?

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Very timely, just saw a porn site open again on my hubbs phone yesterday. Caught him multiple times watching porn in the bathroom and masturbating. He always denies. We have been married for 9yrs and I don't remember he initates intimacy. Already told him about my POV but nothing happens. We have sex only 1-2x every 3-4moths. Feel so tired to always initiate yet still not satisfied whenever we have sex.

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8mo ago

Same here. We've been married for 4 years and it's torturing me. I was depressed, feeling betrayed, keep on asking myself what's wrong with me? Im wearing sexy dresses daily, at home. One time a notification popped up on his phone while he's showing me something funny on ig and it's a porn group on telegram. I lose my mind like crazy. He confessed that he's addicted to porn. He did it multiple times a day as if he did not need me anymore and we are almost decided to split. He regrets everything and apologized to me, said it's not my fault. We are now trying to working on our sex life.