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Walang girl directly na involve. Its just that nawili sya manood ng vids ng other girls na mga sexy at nakapanty nakita ko lang sa recently viewed nya sa tiktok. I felt so betrayed nung nakita ko yun kasi di lang yun yung first time na pinagsabihan ko sya. Kahit na naforgive ko na sya still yung trauma andto pa din. Na what if sa sunod mas higit pa dun? I dont what to do or what to say pa sa kanya kasi ayoko na mastress lalo nat kabuwanan ko na. Hays
Why do people even in good relationships cheat? We have sex regularly and we explore a lot in bed as a married couple. I know Im beautiful. I am decently pasado sa standards ng maganda. I know everyone is beautiful pero gets? Hindi nila masasabing he cheated because nagpabaya ako or anything. I do my best to be a good loving wife and supportive pa. I serve him at home kahit nagwowork din ako. But even so, I still got cheated on. Anuna :((( Huhuhuhu
For me ,base on my own experience, posible po pero hindi basta basta mawawala ang doubt.. hindi ganun kadali makalimot lalo na sa biktima.. ako po kase nuon nung una akong niloko ng ex ko ,di naman ganun katagal ang pag heal ko , binigyan ko sya ng 2nd chance , hanggang sa naging 3rd and 4th chance ..pero hanggang doon nalang yun kase mas inisip ko ang anak ko mas pinili kong maging malaya ..sabi ko tama na sarili ko na muna 😊
Hi! Thank you for your honesty and sharing your experience! Yes, we will always have doubts because that’s how we protect ourselves and that’s alright. Forgiving does not mean forgetting. It means we learn how to reframe the memory as a lesson. You can forgive but not trust completely. Kasi ang trust kailangan i-gain back. But if he has cheated several times, that should be a sign to rethink the relationship. Because a stable and good relationship will always be based on trust and honesty. Kung wala yung dalawang values na yan, you have to evaluate if you still want to continue the relationship. And yes please leave some for yourself. Kailangan ikaw yung ok muna before everything else. We have to learn how to love ourselves first to have the capacity to love others. And if you do learn how to value yourself in the process, you will realize you should not allow others to treat you poorly. ❤️
Hello! What do you do if your already happily married with child tas inamin pa lang nya sayo na nung mag jowa kayo he kinda cheated on you. pero he swore na saglit lang daw yon na chat chat lang daw talaga. Parang bglang nagbago na kasi ako iba na tingin ko sa kanya. Hindi ko na mabalik yung dati. pero iniisip ko lagi anak namin. how do I heal from that? i feel so betrayed and parang ginawa akong tanga all these years.
Nung bago pa lang kami ng partner ko nahuli ko sya na may ibang babae na kachat sa messenger. Makikipaghiwalay na sana ako pero nag usap kami at inayos namin kung ano man yung issue na yun at nangako naman sya na di nya na uulitin. Until now wala naman na buntis na din ako at manganganak na next month. Dati pag nag aaway kami nauungkat ko talaga yun. Pero ngayon mas importante na samin si baby at ang pamilya namin.
he has cheat on me. I don't even know that he wasn't the one who says to me if which he has a wife or relationship even both still relationship. during I am current 5months pregnant. when he didn't give the financial me for check up and medicine, it is an important to be my needed.. I'm very depressing and emotional. because I don't like that just the same from my ex partner and present my partner just happened.
Doc Aika, my relationship is actually trying to recover not from cheating but from catching my spouse watching pornography. 😅 Hayyy di ko alam pero parang naiinsecure ako sa sarili ko when I saw his watch history na puro ganun. Hindi ba siya satisfied sakin? AND is that a sign na he has the tendency tumingin sa ibang babae and theres a high chance na he will cheat on me one day??
Have you tried talking with him about this?
Isasama ko po ba yung manloloko kong boyfriend sa labor room??? AYOKO ACTUALLY pero iniisip ko lang anak namin baka isumbat nya sakin ito pag tanda nya. I need help, nalaman ko lang po na may babaeng inaakbayan sa inuman boyfriend ko habang ako naghihirap....galit na galit ako. pero for this labor or birth, sinasabi nya na may karapatan siyang pumunta sa labor ko. Help please
isama mo! gusto nya diba.. isama mo ses.. Ipakita mo gaano kahirap mag labas ng anak. Baka matauhan at baka marealize nyang hindi sya dapat nag loloko dahil napakahirap maging babae para lang lokohin. In the event na hindi paren magbago, best thing to do is to let him go.
Siguro OO siguro Hindi. Nasa sa inyo kung aayusin nyo pa. Pero pag alam mong walang pag babago at no efforts at All leave. Mas masarap matulog ng my kapayapaan ka sa pusot isip mo. Mahirap OO naman lalot pag may anak kayo pero sooner or later mauunawaan nila bakit need mangyari yun. Isalba muna ung sarili mo bago kpa tuluyang malunod. Know your worth 👌
hi Dr.aika , im currently in my 22nd week of pregnancy and last night my husband tells me na i let go ko na daw sya para di na ako nahihirapan at mga anak nalang daw namen ang intindihin ko, sobrang sakit kasi kng kelan mag 3 na kids namen saka nya gusto makipaghiwalay and i don't know what to do since last night puro lang ako iyak
Djae