I give up on cooking

Ive known my husband for years but only got married 2 years ago. That being said, I somewhat know what he likes and doesnt like to eat. So I tend to ask him what he wants to eat rather than wasting time and effort cooking something he would end up not eating. He is the ultimate picky eater and its been hard to cook something and have my dish be finished. I always end up throwing it away a day after because 1. He ends up not eating because of the way its been cooked. 2. He ends up only taking the soupy part. 3. Say will eat it next day but doesnt eat them at all. I got frustrated and basically stopped cooking unless he says what he feels like having. Honestly cooking for myself and eating it on my own is lonely and i've tried incorporating certain ways to cook food that will end up him eating but end up him not liking. I cant stand it anymore. It hurts when he doesnt touch the food I make because of how picky he is, he doesnt even want to try. Just by looking, he wont touch it.

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Do you know what his family cooks for him and would you be able to learn those recipes? For me I seldom cook, but when I do I will WhatsApp the husband to ask what he wants to eat tonight before I shop for groceries.