Hi. This isnt totally a question i just wouldn't want to post something like this on any social media which i cant post anonymously or else they might judge my husband poorly right away . I just need to share. I got married to a man that I really love. The thing is i came from a little well off fam. I go to FEU, while my husband isn't that much. His mom is a sari sari store owner, and his dad is a rice farmer. I dont mind that at all, my family doesn't either. I live with them embracing the kind of life he can give to me and our 2 month old daughter. My sentiment is that, it is my birthday today... and we are in my sisters house weve been here for over a couple of weeks now because a relative just passed away, so we are almost running out of money, i know that he couldnt do anything here in my sisters house to earn money, because if we were home theres a possibility he could from vulcanizing and we have this billiard table. Its just that, he knows that my birthday is coming, and just told me that he's sorry if he hasnt got anything for me when its my first birthday together. Yes, we got in a relationship and i got pregnant and gave birth in less than a year, but he's been courting me since 2015. I just dont know... i feel sad, and i am actually crying in the bathroom because i dont know if its okay to tell him that i am hurt because he doesnt have anything for me for my birthday it sounds so childish but i dont know i really am so sad. This isnt quite a question i just need to share this out. Thank you.

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Oh. Mine was that too. When I met my husband, I thought well off sila. (We are not, pero nasa mid I can tell). Pero when I got pregnant, I realized na hindi. It's very hard dn for me sis. Kasi to be honest, when we got married, kami na talaga from all. Gstos lahat. And I need to stop working din kasi senstive. Hndi ako mkpaglbas ng sama ng loob or ng hirap ko sa parents ko kasi ayokong sbhn nila na tama sila. Imagine, ung shod ng hubby ko mdalas (from bpo) is pmaptak lang ng 7-10k per cutoff. Kapag labs and ultrasound gapang talaga kmi, lalo na sa gmot ko. Then I gave birth, literal na wala talaga siyang mailbas:( ung mga relatives niyang pinagmamalki niya na myyman or watsoever, ni walang magoffer ng tlong. Mukha akong tanga, and I hate that. Hlos parents ko smgot ng bill. Nakautang siya ng almost 30K sa 2 reltives niya pero that can't cover my whole bill. Lesson, minsan talaga love is not just enough. Kailangan talaga both is may savings na maayos. Pero as long na striving naman kayo both, and hubby mo is mkikita mo namang nagsskap, it'll be fine soon. Kami we talk and talk about it. Dati hirap ako magadjust kasi andami ko need iscrifce, buying makeups, buying skincares, buying things na gsto ko. Lahat un nawala. Ngyon, medyo nkaadjust nko. Technique sis is be open kay hubby. Nakktlong. Makakaraos dn kayo. Tiwala lang. Happiest bday 💖❤️

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