hi i'm taking contraceptive pills when my husband is here and then i stop it when he's onboard.. is it OK? is it safe ?

Better to talk to your OB so she can discuss family planning thoroughly. As per my OB, it's better not to stop since you will be more prone to getting pregnant. Consistency is the key. May I also suggest that you take the injection instead that is good for 3 months. It is only around 500 pesos. :) talk to your OB about it! It is safer and more convenient. :)