Im facing almost the same situation as you. Im 38 weeks now. Wanted for vbac, but baby is quite big and prev exp baby was born due to poor fetal progress. Doc suggested elective czer. Now the date for elective czer is next week. I am much more calm and relax as I know whats going to happen. Follow ur mommy instinct and whats the best for u :)
Quickly contact Dr Tan or the clinic for a second opinion on VBAC. CT Women and Child Clinic ar Seri Kembangan.