im not sure why you guys stay separately but it is clear that he is lonely and does have some feelings for her. it could be just a concern as a friend, or maybe he is developing the love back. i don't mean to scare you, but it looks likely.
why don't you try and get back with him instead of worrying? bond with your husband and keep the love and spark alive. you will find your answers when you are with him.
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