I need advice.

I’m currently in my 26 weeks of pregnancy, and I’m about to be a single mom. I have no work and my family’s financial capacity isn’t that great. My baby’s father offer some financial assistance but I’m hesitant to accept it. Because I would risk my peace of mind and mental health because of “utang na loob” and other words I would received from him and his family. We broke up due to a 3rd party issue and physical abuse. Should I accept their help? Please enlighten me. #firstbaby #advicepls

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Right ng baby mo na maka receive ng financial support from his/her father. Hindi yun utang na loob. I was a single mother also before i met my husband now. Ipinangalan ko sa akin ang baby ko, ganyan din ang thinking ko before na hindi ako tatanggap ng pera from her biological father dahil sabi ko sa sarili ko na kaya ko naman palakihin ang anak ko mag isa, pero sooner na realized ko na ako pala ang talo kc obligasyon pa din nya na mag support sa anak nya. Ang right decision lang na nagawa ko is sa akin ko pinangalan ang anak ko.

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