I need advice.

I’m currently in my 26 weeks of pregnancy, and I’m about to be a single mom. I have no work and my family’s financial capacity isn’t that great. My baby’s father offer some financial assistance but I’m hesitant to accept it. Because I would risk my peace of mind and mental health because of “utang na loob” and other words I would received from him and his family. We broke up due to a 3rd party issue and physical abuse. Should I accept their help? Please enlighten me. #firstbaby #advicepls

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Hello. Hindi mo utang na loob ang financial support. It's your baby's right. Just make sure to list down every expenses you used the money for. Unsolicited Advice lang, ipangalan mo sayo ang baby mo. Many moms makes the same mistake of naming their baby's after their fathers.

3y ago

eto totoo to. papirmahan mo lang ang birth cert sa biological father kung maghahabol ka ng sustento kung ikaw mismo ang aayaw better wag na lang ipaapelido sa ama. pag nagpakasal ka pede mo na ipaampon o ipabago ang surname ng bata.