Get A Helper Or Be A SAHM?

I'm 32 this year. I'm torn on whether I should leave my job to take care of my baby or get a Helper instead. Do you enjoy taking care of your child and watching them grow, or do you prefer to be financially stable(having your own money) since SG is not exactly cheap? And if you get a Helper, do you regret not having those times with your baby?

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I stayed home for 1 year to take own of #1. Finances wise is one issue. But my husband did gave me allowance. But the freedom of spending your own money is different plus the stress of a sahm is no joke. At 1 year I went back to work and my mom took over the care thereafter. But I changed workplace nearer toy mom's place. And I changed again when I placed her to cc so I can cut down the travel time from 1 hour to 30mins to 15mins

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