Unsupportive family members

Madaling sabihin na pabayaan mo nalang sila, na sarili mo muna iprioritize mo, pero di ka rin naman magiging masaya if may guilt kang nararamdaman. Yan yung mahirap na sinanay naten sila, we endured and tolerated the pain but when the time comes na gusto mong sarili mo muna unahin. Matatakot ka. Normal lang yang feeling na yan. Just one step at a time, makakalaya ka rin. Salute para sa partner mo na mas nangingibabaw yung love nya for you kesa sa takot na makarga nya rin yung burden mo. Yung iba kase tatakas pag ganyan, kase sa sitwasyon naten, kasama sa package yung burden at responsibility naten sa family. But know this, mi. If you know you've done enough, set yourself free from the shackle you've been wearing, wag mo na isipin if enough na ba yun sa kanila kase never magiging enough kahit gaano pa kalaki at karami gawin mo for them. Older brother mo nga tumakas sa responsibility by being a freeloader, the audacity naman para i-call out ka if uunahin mo naman sarili mo(your baby and hubby). Minsan kase yung nashoshoulder nateng burden, tayo mismo nagtotolerate at di mo namamalayan ikaw na rin mismo kumukuha. Madedrain ka mi promise if di mo pa iloosen yung drip mo sa burden na bitbit mo. San ka ba mas natatakot? Masabihan na walang kwenta at utang na loob na kapatid at anak o maging ina na napabayaan yung sariling anak at asawa? Di lang parents at older brother mo may need sayo, know your priorities and put boundaries.