Advice please

ikakasal na po kami ng partner ko next week and im 34weeks pregnant, madalas po mas nagkakaoras pa sya sa paglalaro ng games or matulog hindi ko na po sya nakakausap madalas kung hindi busy sa paglalaro ng games, tulog or nagigitara sya, pag nagalit ka or nagdemand ka magagalit sya, dumating na din po sa point na lalayasan nya na po ako kasi pinatitigil ko na sya maglaro dahil may pasok sya sa work, pag break nya sa work hindi ako pwd tumawag pag naglalaro sya kahit na sumasakit na tyan ko kaya ako natawag sa kanya sinasabihan nya lang ako na nagiinarte, naguguluhan na po ako kung itutuloy ko ba yung kasal, di ko kasi alam kung deserve ko to eh

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Sis, put your emotions aside.. Breathe, have a serious calm talk with him. Tell him you want to build a future with him and hopes he feels the same way too. Tell him you need more of his time, lalo na pag nandyan na si baby. Ask if he can lessen playing games as you need him to be there for you not just physically but emotionally. Tell him you need him to be reassuring of his love and is really commited to both of you as soon to be man and wife.. Make him understand how his attitude of disregarding you affects you because of his gaming addiction... If he validates your concerns and how you feel, and makes commitnent to adjust then that is good... However if he disregards you still, then maybe you should reassess if you should pursue with the wedding... You need to be with a man and not a child... If you decide to marry him still kahit he invalidated your concerns, then never ever complain. Since you already know that he will not change. Sabi nila when you marry, you have to love the shortcomings and negative aspects of your spouse. It is easy to be in love with a man that ticks all the good boxes... So have a good look at you partner now.... Can you stay with a man like him for maybe for decades?

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