Lost my bb 😓

I went for my routine check up yesterday happily as I am supposed to be week 8+6. However I was told that there is no more heartbeat. I am in so much shock as the heartbeat was very strong just a week back. Gynae said this may be due to genetics issue but I can’t help to think if it’s because of us having sex once a few days ago. We were very careful to be gentle and slow. My pregnancy is a high risk one and I have been taking progesterone daily. We had sex once around 7 weeks but bb was healthy and heartbeat was strong after that so we didn’t think it would be a problem. Can someone please tell me if it’s because of us that we lost our baby ??? 😓😓

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I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, and I can only imagine how devastating this news must be for you. Please know that it's not because of anything you or your partner did. Miscarriages can happen for a variety of reasons, and it's unlikely that having sex played a role in this. It's important to understand that genetics issues and other factors often contribute to pregnancy loss. It's also completely normal to have thoughts and concerns about what may have caused this, but please try not to blame yourselves. You were being cautious and gentle, which shows that you were mindful of your pregnancy. Your dedication to taking progesterone daily also reflects your commitment to a healthy pregnancy. During this difficult time, it's essential to seek support from your healthcare provider, as well as from friends and family. Don't hesitate to talk about your feelings and fears with someone you trust. Remember to take care of yourself both physically and emotionally. It's a challenging journey, but you are not alone. Sending you love and strength during this tough time. ❤️ https://invl.io/cll6she

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