Hospital/ Dr recommendations

I am ttc & seeing to medical help. I wish to visit a hospital/ Dr who are kind, empathetic yet being honest. I have heard of Dr who ask patient what treatment they want. Instead of helping patient to understand what is all out there & what is it that the patient needs for basic checks & go on from there. And heard of hospital/ Drs who push patients to do treatments or take the route that requires them to pay more, when in actual fact; they need not go thru that route. and also such recommendations for female gynae. Thank you :)