I resigned from my job after I've given birth to my LO. Now he is 17 months old n my mil kept asking me to send him to Childcare cos she said LO when being taken care by me learns n develops v slow .. e.g. Still can't self feed using spoon, can't speak many words yet. Etc .. I'm feeling v sad .. Did I do anything wrong by wanting to take care of my LO until 3 then send him to Childcare b4 I return back to work ? Sigh .. :(

Dun be pressure by environment and people around u. Go childcare in the end 1 mth only attend 2 weeks due to sickness. Then haven't include child loss of weight coz not proper fed , diaper rash. If your financial is ok , why buy trouble and suffering to your kids. N1 is still ok. Just expose him to what the people here like play dates, toys, songs and other stuff. But to accomplish this u need a lot of family support. Which in your case I see is not very strong. Discuess with your husband and see whats the best. Wish u all the best.