I personally think my crush likes me back, but some of my friends are suspecting otherwise because he's more fem than me. How do I know if my crush is gay?

Hi Bea! Literally laughing out loud with hubby here. I had a crush who is very femme in actions and the officemates think he's gay. We tried going out more than a couple of times to share interest and get to know each other. There was even a time that he helped me out choose clothes and shoes for the parties. And now he's my hubby! I guess, you would only know if you get close and would eventually open up to each other.