I personally don't want to hire a yaya. For those who opted not to hire one, what are your reasons?

My in laws keep telling us to hire a yaya. hanggat maaari daw yun distant relative, personally ako ayaw ko. Gusto ko makikita ko pag laki ng anak ko at sakin sya magiging dependent, kasi ako lumaki na may yaya din. at pahabol kung seloso or selosa ka, don't hire a yaya kasi after a few months maattached na anak mo tapos maiinis ka dahil sa selos mapapagalitan mo yun yaya mo e ginagawa lang naman nya trabaho nya.