I am part of a mummy group on WA. And all the mummy do all day is talk about what new things they have bought or signed up their kids for. They talk about buying 2-3 breast pumps, high tea at various hotels, the best tula carriers to buy, sending their kids for swimming etc. I really feel my heart pain when I see what they can offer their kids and what I cannot. Any other mummy feel this way also?
I don't like group chat. I was totally ignored by the mummies cos they talked their common topics only. I even met up with some mummies. They aren't really friends who treasure you. I stopped contacting them thereafter.
dont be affected by what other mummies do. we shdnt compare at all. just do the best thing you can do for your children and yourself. its not a must to follow what they do. just treat it as a leisure of reading what they do.
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Hugs.. It's hard not to feel compromised. I felt it at times as well. But we all give the best within our abilities. No need to compare and live happily! :) What's good for others may not be good for u. Smile!
Don think that way. there alot of thing we can do for our kids. What they need most now is us to be beside them when they grow up. Doesn't mean go hotel for high tea then ur kids will feel ur love for them.
agree with other mummies here. comparison can never end so we better not pressurize ourselves. later kids in school got more comparisons, don't need to be too concerned. only compare with yesterday's "me".
Totally agree with the rest.. Jus exit from the group if it is making u more stressed up cos such comparison is unhealthy .. Look at what u have been blessed with and smile and give thanks :)
don't compare. i know of some people who likes to compare..for example whose child can reach which milestones first etc..just let them be and maybe it makes them feel better by feeding their own ego..
dun be stressed...i would just exit that group if its not compatible. dun need waste time read and feel upset. just delete and anyway they just spamming away in WA..I could never catch up.
U don't have to compare with them. The purpose of joining the group chat is the share tips and information on baby care. Just absorb whatever information that is beneficial to your LO! :)
