Depressed Preggy

I have a bf for 5 months now marami na rin kaming pinagdaanan sa 5 months na yon and mga issues kaya mas minahal namin isat isa.. siya ngayon ang tatay ng baby ko.. Ngayon, ayaw niya ko pakasalan di pa daw kami ready so i understand na mentally emotionally hndi pa ready "okay" so as compromise sabi ko live in nalang muna tayo para magksama mas makilala isat isa and for baby na rin.. nung una okay s kanya then nakausap niya daddy nya biglang ayaw niya na.. sobrang sakit for a Girl na ayaw ka g pakasalan ayaw ka pang makasama or live in.. kahit mood swings ko ayaw niya gusto nya lagi masaya lng ako un lng he cant handle me pag down ako.. pero im trying to understand nalang na stress din siguro siya.. pero naiisip ko rin sarili ko minsan na stress dn ako may dinadala pa ko pinagppray ko na sana maintndihan niya rin ako. Help I'm so depressed po.

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Im sorry to break it to you, pero it doesnt mean na kung na buntis-an ka ng bf mo ay required ka na nyang pakasalan. It doesnt work that way. And you cant expect a guy to commit in such a short amount of time. 5 months is still too short to even fully get to know one another, what more to commit into something serious. The guy is also an asshole for not using protection but it takes two para makabuo - partly your fault too. All you can do for now is to ask for financial support from your bf if hindi nya kaya mag commit sa inyo. Im sorry but this is the harsh reality of life.

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