Depressed Preggy

I have a bf for 5 months now marami na rin kaming pinagdaanan sa 5 months na yon and mga issues kaya mas minahal namin isat isa.. siya ngayon ang tatay ng baby ko.. Ngayon, ayaw niya ko pakasalan di pa daw kami ready so i understand na mentally emotionally hndi pa ready "okay" so as compromise sabi ko live in nalang muna tayo para magksama mas makilala isat isa and for baby na rin.. nung una okay s kanya then nakausap niya daddy nya biglang ayaw niya na.. sobrang sakit for a Girl na ayaw ka g pakasalan ayaw ka pang makasama or live in.. kahit mood swings ko ayaw niya gusto nya lagi masaya lng ako un lng he cant handle me pag down ako.. pero im trying to understand nalang na stress din siguro siya.. pero naiisip ko rin sarili ko minsan na stress dn ako may dinadala pa ko pinagppray ko na sana maintndihan niya rin ako. Help I'm so depressed po.

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For those nag ccomment and saying "buti hindi ganyan asawa ko kasi ganito ganun... buti pa asawa ko..." you are not helping at all. This lady need advice and sympathy from us. Never compare our lives to her. Anyway, since we have different situation but I will honestly say, get rid of your b.f! keep your baby...

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alam mo girl wag mong sayangin buhay nyo ng baby mo jan. Cut him off, kahit pa sabihing stress sya eh duh ano pa kaya yung katakot takot na atress na dinanas mo? Walang wala talaga as in wala sya sa lugar para ag inaso ano pjro sya pasarap? He's not man enough to prioritize you. Know your worth!

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Baka naman mga bata pa kayo. Kaya nakadepende pa rin yung desisyon nya sa parents nya.. Sobrang sad. Nakaka stress yan sobra. Or baka naman hindi pa ready yung bf mo kaya siya ganyan ginagawa lang nyang dahilan yung parents nya. Huwag kana magpaka stress makakaapekto yan kay baby mo.

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hayaan m sha. dpt sha nagiinitiate ng wedding or live in. u just proven how serious he is based sa pinakita nya. for now the most important thing to do is focus on ur baby bec thats ur part, he must soon learn to do his part as a dad and a partner to his baby's mom.

Maybe that's his mind set for now, mababago pa yan, dont keep your hopes down. Don't stress yourself and the baby, pakita mo sa kanya na anong mami-miss nya kapag pinakawalan nya pa tong chances nya to be a father. God is good all the time. ❤️

You are not depressed. Depression is a dieses. It's more of perspective. look at the brighter side of the situation. Seek God for help and refuge. Only God can fill your loneliness and emptiness. Pray ka girl. Seek for a support group who can help you.

Kahit anong mangyari gawin mong okay ang sarili mo, yung gf ko nga 11 weeks preggy ayaw na ayaw ko nasstress same as you and sa mga soon to be mommys nararamdaman ng baby mo kung anong. nararamdaman mo. Cheer up!

Prone talaga sa ganan lalo na pag masyado pang bata para maging magulang. Think positive po and pray lang. I-priority mo si baby mo, sya ang pinadala ni Lord sayo na taong magmamahal sayo ng lubos.🙂

kung mahal nio ang isat isa . bakit hindi pero kung napipilitn lan ang lalaki mahirap yan sis . kc parang nasa yellong lugar kalang malamig ang patutungo. but it's up to you kung magpapakasal ka.

sa ngayon momshie si bby nalang muna ang isipin mo. pag lumabas naman yan, hndi nya naman yan matitiis kasi sa kanya naman yan eh, depende nalang kung wala talaga syang paninindigan