The issue, as you mentioned yourself, is that your husband is not supportive. He needs to step up and be a good husband and father to you as you will be living with him for the rest of your life. If he’s really incompetent at taking care of the baby and protecting you, his wife, then perhaps you’ve got to reconsider if you can live with this for the rest of your life. Your MIL is a separate issue. Are you living with her right now? Try to get out of your current living situation as soon as you can.
U must talk to your husband how you are feeling. Let him know the situation. Also, if best if u could stay away from her, perhaps by staying at yr parents place instead. Just a short period, a breather I must say. Don’t get too affected with your MIL cos this will affect your mental too :) we can stay in touch thru Instagram, mine is lzawang.. if u need someone to talk to! sahm here 😊
Distance makes the beauty. She needs to understand that three of you are a family now and she is out of it. Even said so, I’m having the same issue, not with mil, but with my own mother, she blames me the same way. I think only living separately could help, and find your mil something more meaningful to do than eyeing on you and the baby.
oh dear that's major. it's easier for me because I can just shut people out as in, don't let them come over to my place to help, I relie more onto my mother, even tho she can be pushy but there's the comfort of familiarity..
Because of my mil, I can’t even ask my mum to help cause she will complain unfair etc…
u r not the worse situation that I seen. maybe u just live separately, seldom visit them lozz.. I also do so .. the most important is talk to Ur husband n discuss a solution together.. get support from him.
Sounds like someone you need to stay away from. If that is not possible and your husband will not support you, then other solutions certainly come into consideration. I hope it works out for you.
The best thing to do would be to have a very open conversation with your husband about it. You can even consider involving a couple’s councilor to work it out.
same feeling i had currently ...i feel you
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