How many is enough?

I have 1 boy and coming to have a girl. Before I was married, I wanted alot of kids like as many as I can. But I married late at my 30s. First was boy, after having boy, I wanted more! So we tried and failed. Then after 2 years I'm pregnant with girl! In my mind it's just nice. Boy and girl. My husband is thinking about the 3rd. I'm thinking maybe I want to stop at 2 due to some reasons. Pls comment why u want certain amount of children in your life.

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I have 2 boys and not planning to add more . Having children , is not about loneliness (if u only have 1). If u are capable to give the 2nd child much love , energy to care for them , acknowledge their feelings and tantrums( being very patient) , bigger accomodations (they need own room when they are older too) , financially stable (u need good income to give them best of education and play time too) . If u are able to provide for them all the above , u can consider having more than 1 .

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