I found out that my husband has another child older than my daughter. He had this child daw when we’re still on bf/gf relationship. I was terribly shocked when I found this out. I don’t know what to do. Sobrang sakit and hirap tanggapin.

I'm sorry you have to go through something like this sis, I hope you're doing fine. Would just like to let you know that whatever you are feeling right now is VALID and as long as you're not neglecting your child's needs and not crossing anyones boundaries, whatever you're about to do to make yourself feel better is RIGHT and VALID. Do whatever you need to do to HEAL from this. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Your child deserve the best version of you and you can only do that if you are fully okay and happy. ONLY YOU know what is best for you, for your child and for your family. Try to keep an open heart and open mind. And look for the silver lining. Most of all.. PRAY. Pray for guidance, for clarity, for patience, for healing, for strenght. You are important, you are worth it, you don't deserve this kind of pain, you are one tough Mama, don't you ever forget about that. 💕