Do you miss your old life before motherhood?

Hello. I am a first time mom. Kakapanganak ko lang last month, though mahal ko baby ko and blessed to have her but sometimes I really miss my life before ako nagka anak. Namimiss ko yung freedom. Namimiss ko yung matutulog ka and gigising sa anong oras na gusto ko. Namimiss ko yung alone time and gala without time restriction. Nasa stage pa ako nagmo mourn pa sa pre-mom self. Hindi ko pa ma let go. Ganun rin ba kayo?

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Former life has pros and cons. Sometimes I look back and it's totally different but I know if nagstay ako sa ganung life I wouldn't have my loving husband, our future child. Sure nakaka gala ako and I have that alll freedom but without my husband and soon to be baby, it's just aimless journeys and passing people Life now is full of uncertainties and the weight of being a responsible parent and a capable partner to a capable husband but it is fullfiling, hard, and everything I do has a direct impact in our lives. Bigat but girl kaya natin to!

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