I don't think you're selfish for wanting a simple and intimate gender reveal, to each their own. I think ang mali sa ginawa mo ay hindi mo agad yun sinabi sa sister mo at um-ok ka pa nung umpisa. I think your sister really cares about you and just as you said OK because you didn't want to hurt her feelings, she may now be feeling bad rin if narealize nya na napipilitan ka lng din sa plans nya. I think it would be better to just be honest with them on what you want, and the sooner the better. If they really love you and care for you, they'd understand and respect your decision.
mag stick ka sa kung ano gusto mo at napag kasunduan nyo mag asawa/partner. nakakastress lang pag masyado mo iniisip sasabhin ng relatives or kung sino man. ang mali mo lng dapat sinabi mo agad na ung intimate gender reveal na gusto mo is para sa inyo pang mag asawa kaya nag expect ung sister mo na okay sayo. Sister mo naman un be open. Wag magpaka stress sa ganyan po. Yan ang natutunan ko nung mabuntis ako.
valid nmn yung reason mo yun lng kasi mali mo mhie di mo inexplain ng maayos sa sister mo yung way na gender reveal mo kaya akala nya cguro na it's ok na invite parents ninyo kaya wag din po sana kayo magalit sa sister ninyo kasi di din nmn ninyo pinaintindi sa kanya gusto ninyo mali nyo din po
valid naman un nararamdaman mo. same, di din kami nag gender reveal or anything. mas konti nakaka-alam mas konti makiki-alam ika nga nila. enjoy nyo muna ni husband mo un moment as 1st time parents na kayo unang makaka-alam. pwede naman after, if your sister still insist for the gender reveal.
please don't feel bad momsh! And please unahin mo magpapasaya sayo kasi its your journey. Pwede mo nalang ishare yung news/gender after ng moment niyo ni hubby. IKAW MASUSUNOD. Ofcourse happy sila sainyo kasi first apo, pero ikaw ang masusunod.
i understand your sister..and also your feelings and disisyon..peo sana nagsabi kana kaagad sa sister mo ng plan mo kasi akala nila excited ka din sa mga gagawin nila yun pala napilitan ka lang mas masakit malaman yung ganun kasi.
kayo po ang parents, kaya it's your decision kung ano po gusto nyo. Sabihin nyo na lang po ng maayos sa sister mo kung ano tlagang plano nyo, maintindihan nya yun kung talagang mahal kayo💖
hala bakit pala desisyon sis mo sa buhay mo haha yung matters na yan ay dapat decided between the couple lang. set boundaries with your sister.
huhu opposite kase tlga kami eh. she's a party planner, more outgoing & like the life of the party while ako homebody na di hilig yang mga ganyang bagay.
it's okay mommy to have an intimate gender reveal. Hoping your sister and other fam members will understand you.
Its okay mommy. Its your moment and your husband. Your sister will understand.🥰
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