Very upset with husband

I am extremely upset with my husband. We do not stay tgt as our hs has not arrived. Currently 22 weeks pregnant. Today when I stayed over at his hs, we were quarreling over how he has not taken the initiative to find out about what to get for baby, etc. and he said “treat you so well already, what do I have to gain?”. What did he have to gain?!?! I gave up my career for a year to properly care for my pregnancy. I dont take a single cent from him. I suffer morning sickness and pains without complaining to him to give him a baby. I sacrificed so much. And this is what he said?! I am so so disappointed and upset. I do not even want to talk to him right now. To be honest, divorce is on my mind.

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Hmmm i think because you guys live separately is reason of the poor communication. I totally understand how you feel. Sometimes i also feel like that, why my husband not asking about the baby, why he always never take the initiative to learn about baby or how to take care of baby or what baby need etc. i also feel pregnancy is very lonely, i feel like im going thru everything alone while my husband is enjoying his life as per normal. But maybe you guys have to have a slow talk and talk it out. When pregnant, we are extra sensitive and our emotion is roller coaster. And we tend to follow our emotion. Honestly, some guys are blur blur one everything dont know what to do or dont bother to find out. But please dont do something when youre in anger, try to think of the baby. Try to talk it out and maybe also guide him on what he should do in preparation for baby. Maybe he’s really clueless of what he should do

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