I cant help but cried and felt super sad when hubby told me "i think ur pregnancy is quite relax and nt tedious hor, cox i also nv see u in much pain" Matter of fact is, when i was nt feeling well and in great pain, either he was nt by my side or just ignore me. All these i also nv complaint a word, jus endure the pain and still gotta look aft no 1 myself who is jus 15mo. I have very bad lower back and joint issue which i cant stand or walk too much even when im a normal person(nt preg). I will experience sharp piercing pain as and when now cox gynae says pelvic bones are expanding, thus the pain will be more and frequent. I could feel the pain until i cried. But most heartpain is, hubby thinks its ok and just endure lo or take pain killer if its so unbearable. Sigh... to some extent, i rather nt tell him and make myself feeling terrible. Sometimes i would just wanna rest and lie dwn on my back and hubby will say like "wah u very eng hor, can rest liao and u expect me to look aft no1 isit" It hurts to hear this leh. I cant help but cry deep down. Feeling heartbroken.

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From experience, most men are really oblivious, especially when they are not feeling the pain themselves and they are not made aware of it. You need to communicate this to your husband more if it hasn't already. Cry in front of him if you have to, rather than on your own behind his back. Make your needs and pain known to him. Women tend to think that we are super and can tahan everything to the point that men think everything automatically gets done. Don't need to be that superwoman! Post here if u need help or just to rant. I guarantee almost every mum to be would have a similar experience.

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