I am absolutely fed up of being the sole bread winner in the house. The kids are 7 and 9. I am frustrated that my Wife keeps saying she needs to not work and stay at home to take care of the kids. The kids go to school and we have a part time maid who comes in twice a week. How do I get her to go back to the workforce instead of sitting at home and spending all my hard earned Money?

no doubt she is working different type of work in home but if husband is not financially capable to handle the expense then she can work for money after all both of you have 50-50% responsibility, the way you expressed your feeling is wrong to say in that way you can convince her by explaining the financial situation, she is not burden on you, and I think no wife is burden on any husband