Does your husband accompany you for your gynae check?

We need to be reasonable at times. Since Mummy received an MC, your right to leave with the company is unaffected. If he still has enough of leave available for this year and his absence from work won't have a significant impact on his job, he can take time off to accompany you. I am still in the first trimester and so far my husband insisted on following, I personally don't feel the need for him to do so. I felt is a waste of leave. This is where communication between you and husband involve. I talk to him about it and he shared his personal view that he wanted to witness every check as he intends to have just one child. So this is the only time he can go through it. Perhaps you can find bed time heart to heart talk with your husband and understand each point of view. Don’t compare with your colleagues or friends since every person have its own story.