My hubby just wants to get into the act and get it done and seriously, I'm getting pretty upset about it. Feel like he's using me just to relief his sexual urge. I want more foreplay but he doesn't want....says its a waste of time. How do I persuade him to have more foreplay?
If you are not satisfied with your sex life, sit down with your husband and discuss about this and look for a solution that can satisfy you both. On the other hand, try to create more fun and excitement to your intimacy time instead of doing the usual routine.Read more
- My husband has been pretty uninterested in sex. I have tried many things like buying new lingerie or new nightwear... He is hardly interested. We do have sex once in a while, say once a month? But all the time, I initiate them. And it no longer feel like we're making love. Feels more like f*cking and getting it over and done with. I have talked about this to him but he hardly shows interest. Even if he does listen, the next round of sex would feel special. Then it is all back to square one.Anonymous
- Have you ever gotten so frustrated and upset with your husband cause you feel he's just too rough with your baby? Or if he just wanna get his duties done asap. How do you let him know you're not happy with his methods without sounding naggy or a know-it-all?Anonymous
- How involved is your Husband in your children's lives? I'm just disappointed that my husband doesn't seem ready to be a Father yet. He's not young, he's just like a blockhead. I tried to send him articles to read, encourage him to read up more about pregnancy and how to handle kids as a first time parents. He's excited about having kids but he's not doing anything else. I added him in Fb mummies n daddies group so that he can read those queries that mummies daddies post. Because of some complications in pregnancy I gotta quit my job. So I'm so free to Google n check things out. Like what milk bottles to buy, breast pump, milk powder, diapers, when's baby fair what to buy at the fair etc etc etc etc. So I asked him for opinion he will be like "I'll check" but he NEVER GET BACK TO ME. I ask again n again on separate days. There's a upcoming baby fair and I said the baby fair don't seem to sell the Sterilizer I want. He's like what you want ; Oh, then how? I was mad. I mentioned Hanil like 10-20 times before?!! Is he even listening. I scolded him, don't think u are the only one working now u can't don't care anything. Because next time I'll go back to workforce and I can foresee I'll be only one handling both of them (I'm Expecting twins). I'm too is a ftm but I dislike how he know nuts and still doesn't seem to be worried. I even create excel spreadsheet to let know how what is needed for mummy and babies if anything he don't know he has to ask me or Google but he didn't even read through the spreadsheet. don't get me wrong he's a nice Husband, he massage me Every night even wash my feet for me because I can't bend down to reach. How can I make him be more involve in pregnancy n get him ready to be a daddy ?
Is super normal. My husband also does this. Just hack care everything and let me handle all. Only the 1st few months baby is born, he will feed milk once in a while. But never once change diapers and bath baby. Even baby's bottle etc all is i choose rather than my husband.. my husband doesnt even bother to massage or anything for me when im pregnant. But when lo is out, he will play with lo etc. So when lo come out he will get involve. Dont worry.Anonymous