cheated on me :(

Hubby just returned from a boys trip in Bintan and I snooped on his phone and found out he hooked up with a bar girl after getting drunk. I am livid and I don't know what to do. Pls advice.

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Find out the details, if he did cheat he can't be trusted in other "boys" trips away as the trust is now broken. Been drunk is not an excuse....

Uh oh. Someone's in deep trouble. This boys out of country trip is no way to turn out a good one. There's always something fishy in every event.

have a heart to heart talk. if this is the first time kausapin niyo po ng mabuti. pero kung paulit ulit mas magandang iwanan niyo na si mister.

It might be a moment's folly so without telling him you snooped his phone, ask him about his trip and try to see what he says

Sorry to hear about that . But what I can advice is pls do talk with your husband and clear things out. If it won't work then be it .

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You need to calm down, ask your husband about the details. Both of you need to relax to fix this together without ruin your family.

Well, seems that someone got caught. Only way is for you to decide if you want to talk to him and forget about this, or move on.

Take a screen shot, get tested and then talk to him and tell him that ain't going to happen again or that it is over.

get him tested. the worse thing can happen after he cheat on you is to pass you STD.

Did you watch "The Hungover 1, 2 and 3" It summarizes the boys' trip and getting drunk. Lol