My hubby and me has been married for 10 years and after we had kids, we have been emotionally disconnected, to the pt we sleeping in separate bedrooms (i moved out cos his snoring disturb my sleep) and he is too tired from work to care. We also seldom talk to each other abt things other than the kids and house stuff and to the point where I would rather do my own things than sit down in the same room as him in silence while he fiddles with his hp. This isn't healthy but I've reached a point where I don't feel upset or hopeful for him to do/say anything first. In fact, I don't feel anything anymore. We've gone for counselling before and things just went back to the way they were before after a while. Anyone in the same situation as me i.e. married for a while and no connection to hubby anymore?