how many FTWM resigned after maternity to stay at home with LO? Is it worth to give up your career, when baby can be placed in an IFC, which might even be more beneficial for baby. Does this stretch the family finances a lot?

i plan to quit once i found out I'm pregnant with twins. personally i want to grow together with them, if i miss the chance, it will be lost forever. i don't think IFC is more beneficial for my babies because I'm sure that my babies are better with me. plus I'm not high flyer so can't really say I'm giving up my career. i believe i can easily find another job when I'm ready to leave them