how many FTWM resigned after maternity to stay at home with LO? Is it worth to give up your career, when baby can be placed in an IFC, which might even be more beneficial for baby. Does this stretch the family finances a lot?

I've been a sahm since day 1. my eldest is in pri. 1 now. my hubby doesn't make much. he brings home the average 2k - 3k ... we still get by. we go on holidays we eat out .. it's all about how you budget and finance. on the up side I spend time with my kids alot and I'm never c ever trading this for the works! !