Checking spouse mobile phone

I checked. The first time I hack into his Fb acct I found horrendous things. Subsequently I'm Insecured, every now n then I'll log in to his email Fb and all his phone text. He knows I did that I will not hide that I'm checking him. Sometimes I'll jus ask him for his phone n I'll check in front of him or something. He knows my passcode to my phone n I allow him to check mine too although he didn't.