Hey there,
While I understand the wound needs time to heal, it may also be a question of when you feel the time is right as your body might feel like it’s not ready.
Personally, I felt like my primary role was to provide for my babies first before I could even enjoy intercourse with my husband. It was tough for us but we communicated a lot which helped.
Just thought I’d share my personal experience mama and I hope you feel better soon :)