How do I get my 8 yr son to get out of his infatuation phase with my neighbor's daughter. I want him to focus on his studies only!

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8 years is such a beautiful age, when your child is starting to venture towards the adolescent world, but is not there yet.....it is a time of curiosity and new friendships and lots of new attachments. as long as the infatuation does not affect your son's daily routine or studies, what is the harm? and what exactly do you mean by infatuation here? i think what you mean is that your son looks up to this girl and loves whatever she does. my kid has been through the same phase, idolising a classmate no end....but it was all very sweet and innocent :) life is not just about studies, it is about these experiences too, so i would say don't worry so much

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Hey, Is the neighbour's daughter too of his age or elder! In either case, do not stress that much. I guess, the best way to make him get over the infatuation is to ignore it. When we give more attention to such things, kids think that they are making us laugh about the whole thing and they do it more. More so, he is just 8-year-old. It is just a phase. Children get infatuated, even elders do, so it is all okay.

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Kids grow up fast and the changes in them are faster! Instead of getting annoyed or angry you need to talk to him. Talk about your childhood and tell him how you also had a crush and then eventually it went away. Tell him its normal to have crushes but one shouldn't lose focus. Engage him more in sports or other activities. This is just a phase of growing up!

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