How do I decide if I want to have a kid?

you should take that call when you really feel that you want to have a baby, and not when others tell you to. a few things you should think of are how your relationship with your partner is and if you truly are happy and sure that you want to be with this person for life. also, plan your finances and time. understand how you will manage the many expenses that come with pregnancy and child birth, and for raising a baby. the time you will have to dedicate to your baby is also very important, so keep all of that in mind.