Partner not as excited as I’d expected

How excited are your husbands about your pregnancy and the growing baby in your bellies? Mine doesn’t feel like he’s very excited about it. He doesn’t asks how is the baby doing today, is it kicking, how do you feel today etc.. Are your husbands like that too? Am I over thinking things? Just feel like I’m the only excited one here.

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I think everyone is different when expressing concern, love and affections. Sometimes we may accidentally expect someone to feel or react the same as us thinking that is the benchmark of happiness, excitement and more. But there will be time where we will come to realise not all smiles are equally happy, not all sadness are equally sad. Because we all perceive and understand things differently. Most men don’t know how it feels like for us to feel a little human growing in our belly. What I did was constantly sharing the stages of baby and how I feel everytime. Find time to express the feelings in details to him even when he never ask. i told my husband to download this app to read hahaha. Is like if they dont know much, they dont know what question to ask also. i also share to him some questions I read over here and ask him for his opinion. Let’s try again my dear 🥰

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4y ago

As for me, I downloaded this app on my husband’s phone but it just sat there, never been opened before. Lol. He didn’t even take the initiative to google anything about pregnancy.