how do you deal with husband who keep moaning all the time?

From my experience, moaning is usually linked with a negative approach to life and low self-esteem. Some ways to help end moaning and feeling negative include recognising that when your partner is moaning or being negative, they are feeling unhappy and need attention. Also, find some way to talk to your husband about his feelings (it can be difficult cos some men like to bottle feelings up), making it clear that you do not blame them for their negativity. Find out what need is not being met for them at work or in the relationship or what they are worried about. I admit, sometimes I did get annoyed when my fiance went through a phase of moaning about work. Coming from Singapore and used to the fast pace of life, I initially found it difficult to understand his complaints and moanings about tiny things at work. As clichéd as it sounds, talking things out and listening go a long way.