How do I know my male gynae is not molesting me?

Ask your friends who have different OBs if your discomfort is normal, or if their OBs are doing the same thing. If not then it's a sign that something is wrong. Doing your homework and looking up the proper procedure would also put your mind at ease.

Yeah, usually there is a female nurse assisting so in the event something goes wrong or gets weird, there is a third person witness. If you feel something is off, or you're suddenly uncomfortable, voice your concern as soon as possible.

Standard protocol ensures that a nurse (usually female) is right beside to observe if there is anything unusual happening during the physical examination.

Generally there is a nurse in the room too. If you feel uncomfortable please change doctors and maybe opt for a female?

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