I’m going through divorce

Well, ask ur lawyer for advice, in some case can ask for child support, depending on how well off the spouse is. But also must prove he is capable of doing so too. Some of my friends paid a 1 off 5-6 figure lump sum or is paying a monthly maintenance to the ex wife for child support, til the child reaches 21yo. My friends' case, the child is staying with the mother, with limited access to the father, but I'm not sure if it's a shared custody or what.

custody of the child is not solely based on your financial. The following link may help you to understand better: https://singaporelegaladvice.com/law-articles/the-guide-to-child-custody-in-singapore/ Please check with your lawyer for more details and options. Take care.

child under 7 usually under mother custody however due to circumstances or depending case by case basis .maybe grant share custody

Stay strong and be positive. Most impt u must prove that you are able to take care physically as well

it won't just base on financial its base on how much your baby needs you

Normally baby follow mother more then the father.

Hang in there!