NOT PRIORITY

Ievaluate mo muna sa sarili mo, ano bang lagay ng relationship prior ka nabuntis? And siya ba ang nagdecide mamanhikan na? Is that because you two are getting married? Kasi based on your story, he doesn't seem ready to commit. Kumbaga baka hindi naman niya choice na mamanhikan na. Pwede naman kasi na panagutan niya ang baby niyo. He can be a responsible father without the pressure of living with your family and committing to you agad. Sa sahod naman, you can never require a man to give his salary to you. It has to be of his own choice. If he doesn't give enough and na explain mo na sakanya, alam mo na sa sarili mo na pagkapanganak mo kailangan mong maging financially independent. Do not rely on him to provide for your child muna. Be secure by yourself and maging strong ka. Hindi dahilan na preggy tayo. True we need support. But magiging nanay ka na kaya dapat mas kaya mong magisa matatag ka. Don't rely on a man to provide if you think he is not giving it to you or parang napipilitan lang. You shouldn't pressure a man to do that anyway kasi siyempre sa ganyan bagay mas makikita mo maturity nila. Nanjan ka sa family ko swerte ka. Hindi mo kailangan makisama sa family niya muna.